Thursday, May 28, 2009

Vaada na tod ...

This is something which I don't like but I keep on doing this... Breaking the promise :( ...
 
Now being a person with good analytical skills, If I find out why does this happen then the reason is ...
 
- I am always ready to help others. I always tell others if they can use any oppotunity I am aware about. So I tell them, and promise them I will help you.
- I have too many things runnng in my mind .. I have poor time management and I am too lazy to act on something immediately.. So i keep on delaying the things and then once a week or two I decide the priority of all pending tasks .. I almost forget what I promised to other people during prioritization.
- I am afraid to tell them the truth that I actually forgot or I didn't care what I promised to you. I sometimes don't want to say "Sorry" also, because it could give an impression on others that I didn't keep my promise intentionally.
- One more reason could be, because I want everyone to be happy and sometimes its not possible to do that.
- I don't want to loose my friends by saying "NO" if they ask for my help. Even that thing is beyond my reach. So I just say "OK, I will try" and then pretend to forget. I am not adopting the habit of saying "NO" ..

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