Vaada na tod ...

This is something which I don't like but I keep on doing this... Breaking the promise :( ...

 

Now being a person with good analytical skills, If I find out why does this happen then the reason is ...

 

- I am always ready to help others. I always tell others if they can use any oppotunity I am aware about. So I tell them, and promise them I will help you.

- I have too many things runnng in my mind .. I have poor time management and I am too lazy to act on something immediately.. So i keep on delaying the things and then once a week or two I decide the priority of all pending tasks .. I almost forget what I promised to other people during prioritization.

- I am afraid to tell them the truth that I actually forgot or I didn't care what I promised to you. I sometimes don't want to say "Sorry" also, because it could give an impression on others that I didn't keep my promise intentionally.

- One more reason could be, because I want everyone to be happy and sometimes its not possible to do that.

- I don't want to loose my friends by saying "NO" if they ask for my help. Even that thing is beyond my reach. So I just say "OK, I will try" and then pretend to forget. I am not adopting the habit of saying "NO" ..

Filmy ... and me ??

Hey.. many times i encountered with this situation when my friends called me "FILMY" .. But i oppose, I am not filmy ..

I don't watch movies or you can say, I don't want to waste my time in watching 2-3 hours of movie that includes around 2 hours of stale masala plus few minutes of good scenes.. I rarely go to cinema theatres, say once a year .. Then why am i filmy ??

Hmmm probably I watch them all on Television or my lappy. Movies channels are always not my preference while watching tv, and in lappy my preference is playing games or doing something technical ...

Well, if somebody has watched only 5 movies in lifetime then one must be "SHOLAY" .. similarly, 4 others could be some superhit movies by Dilip kumar, Rajesh khanna, Raj kapoor, Amitabh Bachchan or Madhubala, Meena kumari, Rekha, Sri devi, Madhuri dixit .. These are the movies that impacts our brain to such extent that we keep on finding ourself facing the same situation in real life... We remember the dialogue or actions that actor/actress performed in that movie ..
Everybody has this habit , so do i !!! and yes, I am filmy along with everybody else in this world ...

Why Antakshari is always played when we go for outing ? Why we laugh when somebody mimic movie actors/actresses (not lalu yadav, amar singh, advani or bajpayi) ?? Why do people relate SRK with Airtel or Dish Tv (not othr struggling models in fashion word ) ?? Why your friend circle mostly plans to go cinema theatre after buking a college lecture ?? The answer is same, because we all are filmy .. some people show it and they are filmy, some people doesn't and they aren't ..

Well, I have a toolbox .. a toolbox to deal with some situation .. it has many tools ..
If i talk with a kid, I try to be a kid of that age and make him happy , thats my Kiddu-Tool ..
If i need to explain something to such person who is very influenced by movies .. then there is no better tool that "Filmy-tool" .. I saw it worked best in many situation .. No wonder, if i use it on you , but please don't call me "FILMY" .. ;)